Trayodashi Shraddha
Vedic Ritual
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Trayodashi Shraddha
Kakbali · Remembering the Children We Lost
Ashwin Krishna Paksha Trayodashi (within Pitrupaksha)
Deity
The Pitru (ancestors), Bal Gopal (child Krishna), Yama
Observance
Ritual
Duration
1 day
Observed
All India
Pooja Muhurat
Kutup, Rohina and the aparahna (afternoon)

Set apart for children of the family who passed away young (Kakbali). Doubly meritorious when it falls with Magha nakshatra.

About This Day

Shraddha on 13th tithi; for children and young ancestors

Trayodashi Shraddha is the Pitrupaksha rite of the thirteenth lunar day of the dark fortnight of Ashwin. Besides ancestors who departed on a Trayodashi, it is set apart for children of the family who passed away young — in Gujarat it is known as Kakbali, and elsewhere as Bal Shraddha. A child's death leaves a particular grief, and tradition provides this day so that such souls, who never grew to have descendants of their own, are also remembered and nourished. The karta bathes, takes the sankalp with the sacred thread worn to the right, and in the aparahna offers tarpan of water and black sesame, pinda of cooked rice, and food to brahmins; many families also feed young children with sweets and milk in the departed child's name, and offer food to crows, which are held to carry offerings to the Pitru. When Trayodashi falls with Magha nakshatra it becomes Magha Trayodashi, doubly meritorious. The rite brings peace to the departed and is believed to protect the living children of the house.

KakbaliBal ShraddhaTeras ShraddhTrayodashi Shraddh
Regional Names
Gujarat
Kakbali
All India
Trayodashi Shraddha
North India
Teras Shraddh
Vrat Rules

The karta observes satvik purity; food is eaten only after it has been offered to the departed and brahmins.

Allowed
·the shraddha bhojan after it is offered
Avoided
·onion
·garlic
·masoor dal
·non-vegetarian food
·alcohol
Pooja Vidhi , Step by Step
1
Bath and sankalp
Bathe and take the sankalp for the Trayodashi Shraddha, wearing the sacred thread to the right
2
Invoke the departed
Invoke ancestors who passed on a Trayodashi and the children of the family who died young
3
Tarpan
Offer water with black sesame to the departed, facing south
4
Pinda daan
Offer pinda of cooked rice with sesame, ghee and honey
5
Kakbali
Offer food to crows, and portions to the cow, dog and ants
6
Feed children
Feed young children with kheer, sweets and milk in the name of the departed child
7
Daan
Give toys, books or clothes to needy children to complete the rite
Step-by-step pooja guidance with mantras.
Mantras
Pitru Tarpan Invocation
ॐ पितृभ्यः स्वधायिभ्यः स्वधा नमः
Om Pitrbhyah Svadhayibhyah Svadha Namah · 11 chants
Salutations and the offering of svadha to the ancestors
Vishnu Mantra
ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Om Namo Bhagavate Vasudevaya · 108 chants
Salutations to Vishnu, invoked for the peace of the departed
Krishna Mantra
ॐ कृष्णाय वासुदेवाय हरये परमात्मने। प्रणतक्लेशनाशाय गोविन्दाय नमो नमः।।
Om Krishnaya Vasudevaya Haraye Paramatmane, Pranata-Klesha-Nashaya Govindaya Namo Namah · 108 chants
Salutations to Krishna, son of Vasudeva, remover of sorrow
Pooja Essentials
Pooja Items
Copper water vesselBlack sesameKusha grassCooked rice for pindaGhee lampFood for crowsSweets for children
Flowers
White flowersTulsiKusha grassBlack sesame (for tarpan)
Prasad
KheerMilk sweetsPuriRice and the shraddha bhojan
Do
·Remember children of the family who passed away young
·Offer food to crows (Kakbali)
·Feed and gift young children
·Offer tarpan facing south in the aparahna
Avoid
·Do not begin new or auspicious ventures on a shraddha day
·Avoid onion, garlic, masoor and non-vegetarian food
·Do not chase away crows or animals on this day
·Do not turn away a child or the needy
Remedies
·Offer shraddha for children who died young to bring peace to their souls
·Feed crows and children for the protection of the family's living children
·Donate books, clothes or toys to underprivileged children
·Chant the Krishna mantra for relief from grief
Daan (Donations)
Children's clothesBooks and toysMilk and sweetsCooked food to the needy
The Pitru (ancestors), Bal Gopal (child Krishna), Yama
Trayodashi Shraddha
Kakbali · Remembering the Children We Lost
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